The last time Sis Geier felt like she couldn’t be as independent as her brothers was 45 years ago, right before she moved into Find-A-Way Apartments atLADD.
“Now I can take care of myself just as well as the boys,” she said with pride.
But the journey from Sis’ mother, Peggy Geier,co-founding LADD to Sis living her dream of independence was not without its challenges.
In fact, much of LADD’s history, purpose and future is rooted in resilience. The resilience of adults with developmental disabilities, their families, LADDstaff and our supporters. The challenges we face today in a global pandemic are undoubtedly unprecedented, but our community is no stranger to overcoming obstacles.
LADD’s story of resilience began with the realization that society expected a lot less of Sis than whatshe could offer. At the time of LADD’s founding,institutional living for adults with disabilities was increasing. It seemed like that was the only option for Sis and other adults with disabilities as they planned for their future.
“There were, at the time, state-operated…I’m Going to call them storage spaces for people with disabilities,” said Bob Goering, a founding board member. “They were very inadequate and it was pretty much a death sentence to go to those places.”
This was years before the Americans with DisabilitiesAct and Individuals with Disabilities Education Act Were signed into law, and it prompted Peggy to try and do something revolutionary.
“Everyone had always focused on what people with disabilities couldn’t do, and my mother wanted to start focusing on what people with disabilities could do,” said Rodney Geier, Peggy’s son.
But to do that, something no one had done before,people with disabilities and their families had to shift their mindsets and their lifestyles. Individuals had to learn what they were capable of in this new setting of independent living and how to accomplish their own goals, not those set by others. Families had to realize their potential and, while empowering their loved ones, take the difficult step to “let go.”
“Mom and dad were thinking out of the box. They Felt like if you could give people support to help with some of the small things, there could be an avenue for them to accomplish more by themselves,” Rodney said. “But for anyone to be independent,you can’t just say ‘okay, go be independent.’ All of us have to learn how to do that. I think that’s what LADD is great at doing – empowering people to learn how to accomplish their own goals.”
That’s exactly what Sis has done over the past 45years. She has lived in the same apartment – a “pink palace” as she calls it – at LADD throughout the years, but a lot has changed since moving in.
Before making the move, Sis said daily life was tough – she didn’t know what she could do on her own. But as she began settling into her new apartment, she learned daily tasks: putting together stylish outfits, tying her shoes, combing her hair, making her bed and doing her own laundry.
In the early days of living at LADD, staff helped her more often to ease the transition. Now, she has support when she needs it but is happy to do most things on her own.
“I do everything by myself now,” she said.
“Like a rock star,” said her niece Emily Vollmer, who is a LADD board member.
“Like a rock star!” Sis said in agreement.
She loves that she can be independent – like working at Stepping Stones and playing her favorite music whenever she wants – while living within a community,just a few steps away from friends.“I think what Sis as an individual and LADD as an organization have accomplished definitely exceeded the expectations my mother had,” Rodney said. “Shewas looking for a place for Sis to fulfill her dream of independence and being her own boss. Now, somany others have that same experience.”
Today, LADD empowers more than 500 adults with developmental disabilities to pursue their best life.And we’re setting our sights high on what’s next: from smart homes to enhanced health and wellness, and coming out of a global pandemic stronger than ever.It’s who we are and who we’ve always been: resilient.